Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Belief in yourself


BELIEF IN YOURSELF




You are what you think you are.
But first ask yourself, what do you think you are? What are you capable of achieving? What are your highest limits and greatest potentials? If you are a seed how big is the tree of your achievements?


One of the very important traits of winners is that they believe that they can win. They create belief. Once a belief is created, subsequent experiences will be more or less fitting into the mould. These are called references – the stronger they are the stronger your beliefs are.


For example, in India, they tie an elephant with a rope. The elephant has enough strength to lift logs but still won’t break the rope to run free. Why? When the elephant was a baby the mahout first tied it to the rope. It tried and tried but didn’t succeed. So, it formed a belief that it was not possible to break the rope. It is very fascinating. But we all do the same thing. 


When you fail once, instead of learning from the experience, you form a negative belief about your experience. You keep on failing   thereafter, because subconsciously, you have convinced yourself that you are a failure in life! On the other hand, if you form a positive belief, it will produce positive results!


Examine your beliefs and you will see that there are many incorrect ones you need to replace. The simplest way to break a belief is to question it. If you believe you are a bad student, ask why do you think so? Is it always so? Can it be changed?


Once you make changes, you’ll get newer references. Remember that if you will believe, you will be able to do it.


We all want to be winners in our life. No one wants to carry the tag of loser with them. We all want to be successful.  We have many wishes and dreams. To fulfill what we want, we need to work. And to work, we need to get motivated. And to get motivated, first of all, we all should belief in ourselves. The belief in oneself that yes, I can do it! Is the main thing. We should always feel positive and good about ourselves. Until we love ourselves, respect ourselves and believe in ourselves, no one can help us. We need to help ourselves to get whatever we want in our life.

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